
How do you perceive love? Is she like the seasonal relative that visits only during Valentine’s, Easter, Christmas and other holidays, then vanishes with the wind when the jolly days are over? Does her auburn aura, ever so bright and stunning, blind your judgement of that which is right and wrong? Do you feel like the utterance of Her Majesty’s name to thy ears seeps through the mouth and not from the heart? Sigh!
Well, whilst you try to answer these questions introspectively, here’s L’Antoinette Stines’ reply when quizzed on her perception of love, as sampled in The Carters’ BLACK EFFECT intro.
“Hmm, well, there’s love of children,
Love of self,
Love of God,
Love of a partner,
and all of them have a different shape;
but all of them are the same in the end.
It’s about sensitivity, it’s about passion,
It’s about unconditional giving of self to another person;
And there’s love of humanity,
that’s the love that is right now needed most,
Love of humanity;
but in everything, in all of that love, there is a soul;
It’s like when you take some eggs and break them,
and you take the shells and mix them up,
trying to find the ones that match;
when you find the perfect match
that compatibility results in passion.
results in unconditional giving of self”
Now, that truly packs a lot, I must say; and even though Love has the patience, kindness and endurance to overcome those nagging questions, L’Antoinette makes us remember that it’s more of the unconditional giving of self, whilst prioritizing humankind, thus, suggesting our questions should be confined within the boundaries of the love we give rather than that which we receive.
Alas, this begs another question, at least from my perspective: In a world where certain varying conditions are essential for existence by default, is it possible to give self to another unconditionally?
Anyway, these spurred me to have this drawing; no more than the inscription of love on the muse’s fingers, lol, and I will say I hugely enjoyed it, particularly as this is my first drawing in a while. I also look forward to creating more, as I have just recently got a new pencil and chalk pastel set that I would love to try out in the coming days; but in the meantime, do feel free to share your views on this piece.
Do stay blessed and have a good week ahead. Ciao!
Cheemnonso


































